How to Get Your Virginity Back
Joyce Park stashed this in Feminism
Korean-American novelist Kalliope Lee lets you in on an ancient Asian secret: lying about your virginity! Now with modern accessories like re-virginization surgery and vials of blood for the honeymoon. "Lying about whether you were a virgin was the standard way you dealt with the double-bind of satisfying desires and the resultant guilt and shame instilled by a repressive Confucian ethos."
is this still an issue?
There are no societal norms anymore. A person can be a 40-year-old virgin and that's no big deal.