The Definitive Manifesto for Handling Haters: Anne Lamott on Priorities and How We Keep Ourselves Small by People-Pleasing | Brain Pickings
Tina Miller, MA,CFLE stashed this in creativity
“What if you wake up some day, and you’re 65… and you were just so strung out on perfectionism and people-pleasing that you forgot to have a big juicy creative life?”
So don't be perfect. And don't go out of your way to please people.
Ha Ha. I think?
I'm serious. The only person you have to please is yourself.
And don't be perfectionist; it's not a good use of time.