Are We Made for Monogamy?
Tina Miller, MA,CFLE stashed this in Authenticity
Once a cheater, always a cheater. True or false?“I find that this statement is completely dependent on the cheater’s willingness to take a look at what is driving them to distract themselves from themselves,” says Winkler. “When the cheater is deeply entrenched in this cheating cycle and they feel they are reaping benefits (avoiding those painful feelings) then they will not stop being deceitful. So no change can occur until the blinders come off and the reality of the situation is clear. Then accountability and willingness come into play.” If there isn’t a willingness to explore the pain he or she has caused, that’s a bad sign.
It's a sign the person still lacks empathy.