'Women are just better at this stuff': is emotional labor feminism's next frontier?
Masha Yudin stashed this in Gender
Stashed in: Women
"We listen to our partner’s woes, forgive them the absences, the forgetfulness, the one-track mindedness while we’re busy organizing a playdate for the kids. We applaud success when it comes: the grant that was received, the promotion. It was their doing, and ours in the background. Besides, if we work hard enough, we can succeed too: all we need to do is learn to lean in.
But what if, much like childcare and house keeping, the sum of this ongoing emotional management is yet another form of unpaid labor?"
Sure seems like another form of unpaid labor.