A person who is nice to you but is not nice to the waiter is not a nice person.
Adam Rifkin stashed this in #kindness
More people need to read this.
"If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals" -Sirius Black
From Harry Potter?!
Also, not a smart person. Never disrespect the people that handle your food...
That is an excellent point, Courtenay.
My mother's advice to me: If you want to know how he'll treat you after you've been together for 20 years, look at how he treats his mother.
It makes me wonder why so many people mistreat their parents.
This never happens; ever. Bad people are nice to waiters. LOL.
It happens a lot.
But also, bad people are nice to waiters sometimes.
So just because someone is nice to a waiter does not make that someone nice.