To (All) the White Girls Who Didnâ€™t Get Into The College Of Their Dreams | Racialicious - the intersection of race and pop culture
Jared Sperli stashed this in education
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Thereâ€™s an arrogance in high school students that manifests during the college-application process, but itâ€™s an arrogance that correlates with already existing racial and class privilege. Coming from my school environment, with my background, I expected to get into an Ivy League college â€“a â€śname-brand school.â€ť I kind of understand where Suzyâ€™s coming from (though Iâ€™m guessing that when you add a dash of white privilege on top of that, the unfamiliar feeling of rejection and not getting your way is multiplied to extremes that I canâ€™t possibly fathom). Sheâ€™s youngâ€“youâ€™re all youngâ€“and disappointment is hard at that age. Itâ€™s hard to understand that despite working hard for four years, you may not get into your first choice of school. Itâ€™s easy to look for someone to blame, and itâ€™s easier still to want to place that blame on groups of people who can so easily be scapegoats for your problemsâ€¦and historically always have.
What do you think?
To paraphraseÂ Mad Men:Â â€śNot every little girl gets to do what they want. The world could not support that many ballerinasâ€¦or Ivy League graduates.â€ť My advice to Suzy, Abigail, and every other white girl who didnâ€™t get into their first choice of college this year is to keep your rejection out of the public eye and do what every other kid does when they go off to school in the Fall: give it the olâ€™ college try. Seriously, make the most of the environment around you, and if you really donâ€™t like it? Again, keep theÂ Wall Street JournalÂ out of it; have an amazing first year, and apply for transfer. And do it while understanding that the group of Black, Native, and Asian, and Latina first-year students hanging out on a Harvard quad had nothing to do with you not getting in in the first place.
That was your own comparative mediocrity.