For Gay Chinese, Getting Married Means Getting Creative - Zi Heng Lim - The Atlantic
Stashed in: China!
The thing is, for me, I related to this statement in a deep way: "I'm the only son in the family. I have to carry on the family line. I have to answer to my family," said Benjamin. "... because they only have me, if I selfishly insist on maintaining my ... lifestyle... I feel like I'm letting them down, that I'm hurting them."
He can't adopt?
bro: bloodline is different from family name.