Prostitutes get a bad rap sheet. Johns get a happy ending.

http://www.businessinsider.com/study-theres-a-much-better-way-to-control-prostitution-2012-7

Why DON'T we punish men who seek out sex?

ILLEGAL sex. Because the perps are husbands and providers, Little League coaches, church-goers, neighbors and friends. Prostitution is a "victimless crime", except for the victim prostitutes. You'd think the johns would lobby harder (no pun intended) for legalization.

Johns don't want publicity.

This is one of those issues that no one in power cares strongly enough to change.

Then johns are victimizers. No sugar-coating it.