I get asked this question a lot, and the answer is simple:
Tard is female and her brother Pokey is male.
What breed is Grumpy Cat?
The best Grumpy Cat gifs
Grumpy Cat Valentine
Grumpy Cat Tard aka Tardar Sauce is a girl:
Grumpy Cat's brother Pokey is a boy:
Many fun animated Grumpy Cat cartoon gifs:
Grumpy Cat on Fox: Whatcha Lookin At?
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Gotham Cats. This wins the internet. All of it.
Grumpy Cat Gardening