I get asked this question a lot, and the answer is simple:
Tard is female and her brother Pokey is male.
What breed is Grumpy Cat?
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Grumpy Cat Valentine
Grumpy Cat Tard aka Tardar Sauce is a girl:
Grumpy Cat's brother Pokey is a boy:
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Why engineers are grumpy
Holding Grumpy Cat.
I like the sound you make when you shut up. ~Grumpy Cat
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