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oh man. so true

Lady, lady... It's at least a LITTLE BIT about the nail...

Nailed it.

Ha! Well played. 

Obviously he never had to deal with feelings, just facts

Men intrinsically (instinctively maybe?) want to fix things, if it's broken we can fix it, so when a woman tells us a problem, we have this burning almost overwhelming urge to fix it.  Then everything is about the nail to me and I get frustrated because I want to fix but I know i'm not listening to this problem in order to fix it. I'm just there to listen.  So I try to just listen and say oh you're right that must be so tough.  I need to beatles and "let it be"

 

Don't fix it:

http://www.helpmefindlove.net/why-women-must-vent-why-men-always-want-to-fix-things/ http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/relationship-advice-help-her-understand-how-men-think http://firstthings.org/stop-trying-to-fix-it

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