The science of how touch makes us happier
Eric Barker stashed this in Diabolical Plans For World Domination
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Here's what we learned about the power of touch:
- Affection makes you successful: Kisses before work can add five years to your life and 30 percent to your paycheck. (Kisses atw ork lead to lawsuits.)
- Hugs really do make you happy: Eight glasses of water a day doesn't make you healthy; it only makes you pee more. But eight hugs a day do make you happier. Smile more, pee less.
- Massage strengthens relationships: And they help prevent wrinkles. Botox is expensive. Massages are free.
Okay, that's a lot of formal science about the most informal of subjects. But what happens if you listen to all these cold, clinical studies? You'll be considered a warmer person. That's nice, right?
No — it's awesome. When people perceive you as warm they also see you as having a ton of other wonderful traits. But most of all, they trust you more.
From Touch: The Science of Hand, Heart, and Mind:
The person described as warm was more often rated as generous, sociable, and humane, while the cold person was viewed as ungenerous, unsociable, and ruthless… perceiving someone as warm indicates a specific constellation of traits: helpfulness, friendliness, and, most important, trustworthiness.
I'd give you a hug right now if I could, but I can't. So instead… I'll give you homework:
Try that Penn State experiment yourself: Give or get five hugs a day.
They can be from anyone. Can you do it for a month?
Remember, people reach for their phone 85 times a day. Maybe try reaching for a hug instead?
8:49 AM Sep 07 2016