They make it seem easy. Why isn't it as easy as it seems?

Maybe because he doesn't bother to describe the PROCESSES that get you there.  My experience is that the kind of happiness which I seek is tough at times, but worth it.  And also, not as tough as people think!  -- A kind of paradox.

Ah, yes, that's what's missing: the processes! Thank you.

Yes, and I enjoy teaching people those processes.  Seriously.  And I'm always learning too.

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No worries. Everything is interconnected.