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The 11 things that make someone fall in love with you:

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Of the 11 things that make people fall in love, this one seems by far the most important:

Readiness for a romantic relationship

If the person isn't ready, forget about it. Not going to happen

For some reason the phrase "make someone fall in love with you" is bothering me.

Not sure why.

I really liked this part of the article:

Via Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose:

People who have a high frequency of love experiences tend to have high self-confidence and low defensiveness… Insecure people who do not have a coherent sense of self and who are not self-actualized tend toward a game-playng style of love and have relationships with low levels of intimacy and high levels of conflict… A study that compared the levels of people’s self-identity to the levels of intimacy in their relationships showed that Erikson was right. The stronger people’s sense of self, the higher their ability to be intimate.

Get your inside straight and the outside might take better care of itself.

The key is separating confidence from narcissism.

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