10 Steps to a Happier Life, Backed By Research | TIME
Eric Barker stashed this in Diabolical Plans For World Domination
1) Cut the small talk. Discuss what matters.
First, happier participants spent more time talking to others, unsurprising finding given the social basis of happiness. Second, the extent of small talk was negatively associated with happiness. And third, the extent of substantive talk was positively associated with happiness. So, happy people are socially engaged with others, and this engagement entails matters of substance.
For more on how to be someone people love to talk to, click here.
2) Have at least 5 friends you can discuss your problems with.
“National surveys find that when someone claims to have five or more friends with whom they can discuss important problems, they are 60 percent more likely to say that they are ‘very happy.’“
For more on how to make friends and strengthen friendships, click here)